so i never understood why people love in and out so much. i mean its good, but is it that exciting that if you live out of state any time you're here you have to make a trip to in and out? this is what i ordered when i ate meat : cheeseburger with grilled onions no 1000 island. and as a veggie: grilled cheese raw and grilled onions no 1000 island.
seth and i got in and out on the way back from a midwife appointment a couple weeks ago. he got me to try a bite of his grilled cheese with 1000 island on it for the first time, not bad. then we went again on the way down to santa barbara yesterday and i made the big leap and ordered mine with 1000 island on it.
my life is forever changed. i have seen the light.
that was what was missing for me all these years. now i know why 1000 island comes on every burger automatically, it used to seem like such an obscure choice. now it only seems natural and like the best choice possible. if i lived in another state i might drive to california JUST to get in and out.
that being said... i'm onto the opposite sex. after seth and i got in and out we had a great conversation about the opposite sex. seth and i always had mostly friends of the opposite sex. he had lots of girl friends and i had lots of guy friends. after we got in and out he said how he missed his girl friends and i said how i missed my guy friends. neither of us feel weird about the other hanging out with their friends of the opposite sex, but theres this weird thing that comes with marriage where your friends all back off. i get that its out of respect and other people get weirded out if they see you with another guy/girl other than your spouse... but seth and i wish we could have our friends back in our lives. they are important to us and both of us want those kind of friendships again... anyway its always so nice when we talk about, well, anything cause we relate so much and its so nice to have a husband who wants me to have my guy friends and isn't jealous.... and its nice to trust him so much that i honestly really want him to spend time with his girl friends cause i know its important to him. .... so to all our oppie friends... come out of the wood works and chill with us again!!! its not awkward.